
Your Divorce is Final. Now What?
"Monica"1 came to me after her divorce was final to learn if she was going to be okay financially now that the dust had settled. Monica, a mother of two boys, ages 14 and 16 worked part time in marketing and was also receiving spousal support from her ex who was an orthopedic surgeon. When they were married, they lived a very lavish lifestyle and even though her ex had a very high income, they didn't have much in savings. Private school for the boys, two to three expensive vacations a year, two car leases at over $1,000 each a month. Etc. etc Interestingly, Monica was actually "better" with money than her ex. Higher income doesn't always equate to better financial decisions.