The Little Big Personality: Observations on My 18-Month-Old Granddaughter

As I watch my 18-month-old granddaughter Drew toddle around with her infectious giggles and curious eyes, I can't help but marvel at the blossoming personality she's already displaying. It’s a wonder to see how, even at such a tender age, she has distinct preferences, reactions, and traits that seem to be uniquely her own. This got me thinking: is it possible that one's personality begins to form at such a young age?

The Science of Early Personality Development

Research suggests that many aspects of our personality start taking shape in early childhood. Studies in developmental psychology indicate that traits like temperament can be observed in infants and toddlers. These traits often form the bedrock of our personalities, influencing how we interact with the world and respond to our experiences.

For instance, Drew's spirited nature and her seemingly fearless approach to new situations may be early indicators of an extroverted personality. Her joy in exploring every nook and cranny of the house, coupled with her keen attention to new objects, might reflect a natural curiosity and openness to experience. Just today, I saw her pick up a small rock, examine it carefully, and color it with chalk, and then smell it! These are all foundational elements that could be shaping the person she will grow into.

The Role of Environment

While genetics play a crucial role, the environment is equally influential. Drew's world is filled with loving interactions, stimulating activities, and a sense of safety and support, all of which contribute to her emerging personality. The way she lights up when she hears a familiar voice or the determination she shows when stacking her building blocks speaks volumes about how her surroundings are nurturing her development.

Children like Drew are constantly absorbing and responding to their environment. The warmth of a hug, the encouragement after a tumble, and the delight of discovering something new all contribute to shaping their personality. It’s this intricate dance between nature and nurture that molds who they are becoming.

Observing Drew’s Personality in Action

It's fascinating to note how Drew expresses herself in various situations. She loves to laugh and seems to have a playful spirit, whether she's interacting with family members or simply enjoying her favorite toys. Her reactions to new experiences, from approaching a new friend to eagerly trying a new food, offer glimpses into her evolving sense of self.

Watching Drew’s interactions provides a front-row seat to the early stages of personality formation. Her ability to communicate her likes and dislikes, her enthusiasm for discovery, and her burgeoning sense of independence all point to the complex, wonderful person she is becoming.

Why Early Personality Matters

Understanding that personality begins to form early can help us appreciate the importance of these formative years. It reminds us to create nurturing, supportive environments that allow young children like Drew to explore, learn, and grow into their true selves. Every moment of joy, challenge, and discovery adds to the rich tapestry of their personality, helping shape the adults they will one day become.

As I continue to observe Drew's growth, I'm filled with anticipation for the future. Who will she become? What passions and talents will she develop? I think parents and grandparents play a huge role here. (My own grandfather was a tinkerer and fixer of anything mechanical and I think that upbringing led me to what I have done with my own two hands. I once made a bicycle with 30 gears when I was a teen). The foundation is being laid right now, one joyful giggle and curious glance at a time.

In the end, while we may not have all the answers about how personalities are formed, watching Drew has convinced me that the roots of who we are start very early. Each day with her is a precious glimpse into the wonderful complexities of human development.

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Rick Fingerman, CFP®, CDFA™, CCPS®

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